A Mikveh Journey to Tilburg

By Sarah S -- Our recent visit to the mikveh in Tilburg was more than a ritual - it was a moment of profound spiritual connection, shared both individually and as a group. For me it was deeply personal, echoing the powerful memory of my first immersion during my conversion in 2022. Yet this time, I was not alone. Alongside Rabbi Brian, Veronika, Nada, and Klio, I experienced the mikveh as a communal act of reflection, courage, and renewal.

We were warmly welcomed at the synagogue in Tilburg by Marlien, who greeted us with a big hug, followed by a comforting cup of coffee and Max’s delicious homemade cake. Later, we were joined by Edquar, adding to the sense of being held and supported.

I was the first to enter the mikveh. The warm water embraced me as I took a deep breath and submerged fully. Marlien, with her years of experience and gentle presence, quietly said “Kosher” as I emerged. I recited the bracha with my eyes still closed, tears beginning to form. After the second immersion, she softly joined me in reciting the Shehechiyanu as my emotions surfaced. One more descent into the water, and I stepped out, towel in hand, overcome with tears, grateful, released, renewed.

Each of us had our own reasons for coming to the mikveh. Whether it was to mark a transition, find strength amid personal trials, or reconnect with a sacred practice, the experience bound us together in quiet solidarity. In that sacred space, there were no words needed. Just stillness, water, and presence.

While the mikveh is not a central practice in the Reform tradition, it holds deep significance in moments of change, healing, and affirmation. For me, especially as I face ongoing personal challenges, grieving my Nonna, supporting my father through illness, this ritual was a lifeline. A reminder of resilience, community, and the enduring embrace of Jewish tradition.

After the immersions, we shared a lovely lunch prepared by Anita, which added another layer of warmth and togetherness to the day.

I sincerely hope this was the first of regular visits to the mikveh that IJC will organize, with the ever-welcoming Tilburg Synagogue embracing us each time. I also hope that other members of our community will feel inspired to join future mikveh visits and discover for themselves the beauty, depth, and renewal that this ritual can bring.

A heartfelt thank you to everyone who made this special day possible.